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[quote=Anonymous]I think it's appropriate to go to Zoo Lights with "dad's friend." I also don't really think that the way he was speaking to his son during this outing is indicative of a larger parenting problem.

I do think that OP should break up with him if she's feeling at all ambivalent about the relationship, though. Now that you've met his kid, that door has been opened and the more you see the kid, the more likely the kid will become attached to you. If you're not all in, get out now before that happens.

I say this as a person whose ex did similar things. I didn't have a problem with him introducing DD (similarly aged at the time) to his girlfriend as "dad's friend" for a specific activity provided that it didn't cross the lines we'd drawn early on (it didn't). What I did have a problem with was my ex continue to see women he felt lukewarm about long enough for them to make an impression on DD. When he finally broke up with them, I think DD was more upset about it than he was, and that was a problem.[/quote]

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