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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can you provide the name of whatever app automatically shuts off the device at the specified interval? [/quote]

It's called "Mom."[/quote]

Ahhh yes.  But Mom can be ignored, argued with, begging for just 5 more minutes, assured that the world will end if you don't finish just this level, told that she got the time wrong, and he has 5 minutes left, told that the time he spent in the bathroom shouldn't count, and so on.  If your kid is stubborn and tenacious enough, it can take a half an hour to end a half an hour of screen time. And if you have an ADHD kid whose meds have run out and is in hyperfocus mode, this will end with yelling, crying, a meltdown and a slamming door. Whereas your kid can try to argue with a kindle that has turned itself off.  But they won't get very far, and mom doesn't have to listen to it or have the same.damn.fight.and.temper.tantrum.every.day.

[b]If you don't have an ADHD kid who hyperfocuses with electronics, you may think it's a lack of discipline issue.[/b]  And the parents should say turn it off and the kid should do it. Nope.

I'm actually a big fan of no electronics until you really can't avoid it. But by middle school, there starts to an academic use for devices too, so avoiding altogether may not be possible. [/quote]

Yes, actually, I do. Agree that in middle school it's harder, but that is no excuse for not parenting. If that means the kid only uses a school-issued laptop for 30 minutes a day while doing homework, while sitting next to mom or dad to make sure that games aren't "inadvertently" popping up on the screen, so be it.

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