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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Chastising and correcting is not meant to be done via text. Be considerate of his ego. [/b]You didn't need to tell him you disintegrated consider it a date. If the text was really that big of a deal, you should have said it more gently and in person. If he complained about the texts you sent during the racy chat, wouldn't it be upsetting to you?

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+1.  There is going to be a point that you can't use being rusty at dating as an excuse.  You have electronic communication with someone in your life be it your friends, family, co-workers etc.  Same rules apply about when in person is better than electronic.  Also you seem to think everything has to be explicitly said when there is also subtlety and actions.   The bottom line though is if you are really a blunt person, that's how you are with everyone, then guy need to be with someone that appreciates it and no point in trying to change who you are.  If you are normally a subtle person -WTF, get out of your head and stop pre-emptively save yourself from any possible misunderstanding and getting hurt because it is coming off as being unkind and not being considerate.[/quote]

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