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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Holy crap, no wonder there are so many crap marriages on this board.  OP please do not get hitched if your relationship cannot withstand honest about a hair color.

"Christ, your hair looks like shit!" is not what you say of course. But it's fine to say that you don't care for it. My husband shaved his goatee and I told him I liked it better the other way.  I've worn outfits he told me he wasn't wild about. Doesn't mean we're dicks, doesn't even mean he has to grow a goatee back or I have to get rid of certain outfits. But it's totally fine to be honest about it geez.

Also what's with the weak, emotionally-fragile women here who take someone's opinion about their hair as a threat to their well-being? Strong women are okay with honesty from their partner.
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That is not how I approached it. If it's a huge change she might be feeling iffy about it too and doesn't need her fiancé going WOW I HATE SHORT HAIR ON YOU IT LOOKED SO MUCH BETTER LONGER. It's probably not "fixable" in the sense she can just revert back to what it was right now so why not let her grow it out and later when she asks how you like her hair admit you like it the way you do.

Telling her you don't like her hair is going to make her feel like every day you're looking at her as if she ruined her looks. [/quote]

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