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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What a hurtful thing to say.

OP, I don't know the ins and outs of your relationship or whether or not he is having an affair or anything else specific. But I will say that a statement THAT harsh deserves to be met defensively. You need to continue this conversation with him but with your thoughts composed and prepared to stand up for yourself and challenge his misconceptions and misrepresentations. Maybe it will turn out something is deeply wrong; maybe he's going through something he hasn't shared with you and is taking it out on you. Or maybe a hundred other things.

This is one of those things you choose to fight about.[/quote].

This is one of those things you choose to go to marriage counseling about.

Especially if you are so pissed that you're wanting out. If you have any desire to keep your marriage together, OP, don't just fight. Do question his very off-base, jerkish comments, but get both of you to a professional who can help you both lower the temperature here.

And I agree with others that he may be knocking his life with you because of something else going on in his head. An affair may or may not be what's going on, though. Depression can manifest in trying to distance oneself from family too. [/quote]

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