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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Spa GC
Warm scarf
A new fiction book
A getaway for the two of you to try and work things out?[/quote]

Yes, on the first three.  I wouldn't force it with #4 right now.  OP, is your wife having a hard time with menopause?[/quote]

No, that's not it. For reasons I really can't get into.

I've recently learned that she concealed some mental health issues from me before we got married and I think they're coming back. I've asked her to get help, particularly since she struck our teenager the other day. Didn't hurt the child -- at least physically. But, I've kind of drawn a line in the sand now about insisting she do something about her anger. She's always angry at everyone. We walk around on eggshells around the house. I've put up for it for far too long.

Sorry, it just really has me down. I know this is supposed to be a happier time of the year, but I'm sitting downstairs bearing the silent treatment this morning because I'm refusing to indulge what I've come to recognize as a pattern -- an angry outburst at my child, followed by me calling her out on it, followed by notification that she will sulk for 3 or 4 days until she's ready to talk about it. So, I'm kind of done.

Just the timing sucks. [/quote]

As the former child in a very similar position, OP, please don't allow her to continue treating your children this way.[/quote]

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