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[quote=Anonymous]I'm going to give a warning here that other PPs don't mention. Think about it this way: If the worst-case scenario happens and you are unable to get pregnant ever, at all, will you regret having told people? I regret telling people because it looks like we aren't going to have children (complicated and part of it is choice, as in I'm done with miscarriages). But now I'll forever have to deal with people feeling sorry for me, like "oh, they weren't able to have kids." It's far easier when people think you don't want kids and never tried. They're less inclined to treat you with pity. Only share with people if you can handle how they'll act if you are never successful. Seriously.[/quote]
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