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[quote=mshakespeare][quote=Anonymous]Oh, FFS. I always had sex up front because I like sex. I'm not particularly extroverted or even drop-dead gorgeous. But, in my younger days, I was cute and sexy, and I'm still smart and funny. I never had trouble getting good guys to stay around; in fact, I sometimes had trouble getting them to back off when the relationship was over.

I had three long-term boyfriends (2 to 9 years) during college/grad/school/early career before I was really ready to settle down and get married in my early 30s. Met a great guy almost immediately, got married 2 years later, now have a beautiful family of four kids, a great income, and a happy marriage.

IT'S THE GUYS SHE'S ATTRACTED TO, not her "slutty" behavior. She says she's unhappy being single, but she likes the rush of the mysterious, slightly damaged guy, or she likes being the mysterious, slightly damaged girl (so the "good" guys don't stick around).[/quote]

First, I never said anything about slutty behavior. If a girl enjoys sex and gives it up, that's totally fine. Women should have the same ability to express themselves as men and without being called sluts.

However, I don't think anyone said that she wants one night stands. She wants a real relationship. It appears her expectation is that she is going to get a relationship by giving up sex up front and it is obviously not working for her coupled with her choice in men. I am simply saying, that if you don't like the results of what you are doing, then do something different... The definition of insanity...[/quote]

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