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Reply to "Are you offended when someone says they “didnt want someone else to raise my kids”?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To be fair, women who aren't motherly or patient by nature, wouldn't their kids be better off getting raised by fathers, grandparents or hired help?[/quote] Just don’t call it raising. It hurts too many feelings. Call it something like “spending significant awake hours with” and you have to assume almost nothing happens during that time.[/quote] Can you say "I stepped back from full time work to be the kids primary care giver?" I mean, that's the truth. andnit doesn't use the "r" word. If you work full time when your kids are 0-school age, you not the primary care giver for the child. [/quote] No, there is only value in what you do if you earn money elsewhere then hand that money over to the person spending significant time in your home while you’re away doing not much of anything, like a nanny. It’s definitely not ok to just do that work yourself instead of having a paycheck change hands. [/quote]
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