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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]By and large, a kid with an August birthday in a Sept or later K start date should attempt to stay up and play with grade if possible. For recruiting, for social, etc. But there are exceptions. Very weak older team and very strong younger team. Where do you get the best development opportunities. Very late maturing kid who would get more "fair" play playing with the younger team Extremely good Older team where they would not actually play much and a weaker younger team where they could get on the ball significantly more. What people seem to forget is that recruiting is not only random scout at random showcase. I cant emphasize enough that ID camps are one of the critical ways for kids to get seen by college of their choice. That is where coaches get to see them in a controlled environment, with coach dictated positions and match ups. And ID camps are by graduation year. It is NOT cheating or skirting the system to play on a team that corresponds to your birthdate. It may be sub optimal for recruiting or social aspects but it is unequivocally not cheating. [/quote] The part that you're missing is there's always the option of playing on the correct grade B team. If an Aug birthday isn't good enough for the A team thats their grade it shouldn't be assumed that they're good enough for the grade down A team. This is what many people here seem to be assuming on this thread. Maybe you play down and only make the B team. What do you do then?[/quote]You do what clubs and leagues say to do, play in your age assigned group. You are inventing convoluted solutions for problems that only exist for you and your daughter.[/quote] Nothing is being invented. Below are the facts. 1. Play on a team with players your grade and your friends in school 2. Don't have a weird 9th grade where you play HS soccer but the rest of the team is in 8th grade. These are the reasons Aug birthdays should play on a team thats their grade. 3. College recruiting will be 1000% easier [/quote] Nothing is being invented. Below are the facts. 1. Play on a team with players your grade and your friends in school 2. Don't have a weird 9th grade where you play HS soccer but the rest of the team is in 8th grade. 3. College recruiting will be 1000% easier These are the reasons Aug birthdays should play on a team thats their grade. [/quote]
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