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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm not going to reach 90 pages of comments to chime in here, but the comment is hurtful because it has a certain grain of truth in it.

We were lucky enough to have a nanny and WFH the first year of DC's life and then I stayed home until DC started daycare at 2.  At that time, she was ready and chomping at bit for more social interaction.

Now, at 3, she absolutely loses her mind and bounces off the wall on days when she doesn't have the stimulation of school.  But at the same time, she can (and HAS) verbalized to us that she misses us because she doesn't get to see us very much during the week.  And this is with 2 WFH parents.

It sucks, and feels like you can't win, but we plug forward anyway.[/quote]

If you would have read 90 pages nobody thinks there is a “grain of truth” except some extremely insecure SAHMs. [/quote]

Why would the statement be offensive if there was zero truth to it? Do you get offended if someone says the earth is flat?[/quote]

Nobody was offended really. They just said it pointed to a very insecure and quite ignorant SAHM and most agreed they don’t know any SAHM IRL who are that insecure and ignorant.

If someone said the world is flat I wouldn’t be offended I’d think that person is stupid.

If a person said the statement in the subject line I also would not be offended, but I would think the person was stupid or insecure or both.[/quote]

I don’t think that’s quite it. Pages and pages of this thread suggest quite the opposite.[/quote]

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