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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP: You're funny. I can't win. If I said he was with his kid 25% of the time you would criticize him. If I said I had met the child you would think I was an evil woman who couldn't wait until the divorce was finalized. We don't live in the same area 50% is fine. I am not some woman who doesn't have her own life. I work long hours ( 2 jobs), I have hobbies, friends, and I volunteer a few times a month. I am still young and want to have a substantial amount of money in my bank accounts in the next few years.
I am very fulfilled. I have never needed a man to complete me.[/quote]

And you were complicit in destroying an innocent child's family life. You can't win because you are a loser. Your ability to understand that your life now is not perfectly rosy only extends to the fact that your AP passes gas. And you don't know his child yet. Best of luck.[/quote]

Wow.  Just wow.

Tell us again why his cheating is in the best interest of his child.[/quote]

Not pp, but that would depend on the DW role in the straying of her DH.  Did DW have her child's best interest at heart when she was not taking care of her marriage the way she may have in the early days?  Did DW have her child's best interest at heart when she was tearing her DH down yet again in front of their child?  I could go on and an on because that was my experience and my DM never realized how badly she affected me and siblings when she would emasculate my DF in front of us.  Marriage works because of two people and the DW are not innocent in what happens to children, especially if they are like most of the DW's I know, or my mother, in how dismissive and abrupt they are with their DH.  [/quote]

Even if his wife was the worst ever, it was his choice to cheat.  One parents bad behavior does noy justify the other parent to behave badly.  Divorce might have been in the child's best interest, but how could the cheating be?

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Except she was cheating too  :)  Her name was released when the Ashley Madison hack happened. I didn't mention it early because it doesn't matter now. Everyone knows about his affair because she's shouted it from the rooftops. Oddly enough they don't know about hers.[/quote]

Again, it doesn't justify it.  What is better for the child, having 1 trustworthy parent or having 0?[/quote]

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