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[quote=Anonymous]I am the OP.  Thank you for all your feedback.  I could write pages and pages of why I am unhappy in my marriage.  Insulting my cooking was not a stand alone incident but just the final act of disrespect that I am going to subject myself too.  Anyway its in the past and I don't want to rehash it.

I did talk to my ex on the phone on Wednesday night and told him our marriage was over and I was not coming back.  I did not tell him I had filed for divorce and he was being served the next day.  I did not want him to dodge the process server.  I really want to get the process started.  I am sure I will get flamed for that.

My ex is convinced that I am having an affair and that I am leaving him for another man.  That is not the case.  For the record I have never cheated on my ex.  He kept asking why why why and I told him to go down memory lane and think about all the arguments we have had read the emails I have sent him and he will have his answer.  I told him I was done arguing and fighting.  I am just done.

Our only joint asset is a house that we put a very hefty down payment on so the house does have some equity in it.  If he agrees to give me the quick divorce that I seek I will happily walk away with nothing.  He can have the house and all the equity.

I have not spoken to him since he was served with divorce papers.  I honestly have nothing left to say to him and the lawyers can handle it now.

I do plan to seek counseling and I am not going to date anyone for 1 year minimum.  I am going to get to know myself again.  This is a fresh start for me and for the first time in a really long time I am happy.[/quote]

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