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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]New poster here, but those all sound like pretty typical daily household work to me.

Take kids to activities/school/aftercare. 
Fix/eat dinner. 
Dishes 
Supervise showers. 
Supervise homework. 
Laundry

If you add in a baby with what sounds like early ES kids, there is another whole set of tasks to be done after work.

I feel like a lot of men don't know this. Just like a lot of men feel like women don't know how important sex is. [/quote]

The post which you responded to acknowledged these are routine things, and specifically asked if these things were all evenly split with husband. Not sure why you felt the need to redundantly point out what's already been acknowledged.

you have also overlooked the point about reviewing ALL of the workload of both partners and looking for things to outsource and not do, so as to ensure neither parent is too tired for maintaining the marriage intimate. That might even mean that one of the high effort/low reward kid activities gets dropped. Oh well, this might be a worthwhile trade off for a strong marriage [/quote]

That man seemed shocked that these things needed to be done every day.

What high effort/low reward activity do you see above?  Feeding your children?  Bathing them?  Picking them up from school?  You really want to outsource that stuff?  Have someone else have dinner with your kids every night while you have sex in the back bedroom?  Some of the men on here have such ridiculous requirements for a strong marriage. 
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You misread the post.  Not shock at all, but ascertaining if the things that woman was listing as "seductive" are in fact just her normal day.  As to a outsourcing, you again misread. It wasn't directed at *that* list of stuff per-se, rather at the *total* combined list of both partners.  Make sense now?
Some women on here ridiculous standards for what they seem to be "essential stuff that must be done and partner should split" which leads to exhaustion and resentment and inhibits sex drive.  The "list of stuff" needs to be right sized and in fact must include proper attention to the marriage. [/quote]

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