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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Teach us to seduce. That's the exact point of this thread. Be specific.[/quote]

For me, it would be:

take care of driving the kids to activities, feeding them dinner and supervise them taking showers and making their lunches. Make sure homework is done.  I do all of those things daily.

Then, tell me to forget doing any laundry that night. Bring me a glass of wine. Ask me what my fantasies are. Really listen to the response.

With me so far?[/quote]
You really do all that stuff daily? Is that actually a fair/equitable distribution of work between you and H?
If not, then this is a problem that needs permanent fixing, and not just for 1 day so H can get laid.

Assuming your baseline is already fair, then it seems your baseline workload tires you out too much leaving you no interest in sex. 
Which sounds like the BOTH of you, as a couple, have TOO much going on.
So I would go back through ALL the stuff that both you and H do on a daily basis (including your stuff listed above) and I would look for drastic ways to outsource and/or eliminate  non-critical work, then I would fairly re-balance whatever remains. The net effect is you should BOTH have less to do, and YOU have more energy for sex.  Right?!
Any other answer is simply unfair and not sustainable for either of you.

Definitely I'd bring you a glass of wine and listen to your fantasies. My pleasure, nothing hard about that.

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It's the story of my life, so no, not equitable. He doesn't want to hear my fantasies because he's intimidated by my sexuality and repressed. Won't even give oral because "I didn't used to like it."[/quote]

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