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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]But, getting back to the original question: yes, if my husband would use what I've told him about how to get me to melt (just complete undivided attention to touch and response) then he'd get a tremendous return on that investment.  Instead, he's all about his own ego, and thinks what I want means he has to do all the work so he won't do it.  For him sex seems to be all about resentment and selfish pride.  So, not happening.[/quote]

Men are the pursuers, it's in the DNA.   Modern men either don't know how or can't be bothered to 'seduce' their wives (and I don't mean flowers or doing the dishes.)  So they get what they deserve.   [/quote]

Teach us to seduce. That's the exact point of this thread. Be specific.[/quote]

For me, it would be:

take care of driving the kids to activities, feeding them dinner and supervise them taking showers and making their lunches. Make sure homework is done.  I do all of those things daily.

Then, tell me to forget doing any laundry that night. Bring me a glass of wine. Ask me what my fantasies are. Really listen to the response.

With me so far?[/quote]

I'm sure you believe this. It may even be true for you. But my wife (and I suspect more than a few women) have a tendency to move the goal posts. "I would want sex if [list of things]." When [list of things] is forthcoming, there are always other things. But not a desire for sex. And it's not because she's mean or doesn't care about me or is trying to mislead me. I'm pretty sure it's almost entirely attributable to biochemistry. [/quote]

I have heard female friends say this.  I have never ever seen their husbands actually do it.  
I know for a fact that the dad who is coaching the kids soccer team and coming to get them from school days he gets off work early is getting plenty of sex.  [/quote]

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