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[quote=Anonymous]I have advice from a different perspective that will end up giving the same advice as everyone else but for a different reason.

I have an explosive temper, as did my father.  However, neither I nor my father have ever hurt anyone in anger.  In other words we both had and have control over our tempers.  The reason?  Neither of us could stand the thought of hurting anyone, especially a SO.  As a matter of fact, I thought my Dad was kind of a wimp growing up because he was so easy going.  I don't have that level of control yet but I'm getting there.

Because we couldn't stand the thought of hurting a SO we put enormous effort into controlling the beast.  And this is why you need to get out:  Your SO is NOT EVEN CLOSE to the level of effort required to control his beast.

1. He is still making excuses
2. He is not apologizing
3. He doesn't really think he did anything wrong

AFTER HE REALIZES all these things THAT is when the effort STARTS.  Then he will have to put everything he has into actually doing what it takes to control it and it will take YEARS.

So ditch this abusive jerk, you are better off being a cat lady than bringing a child into this abusive home.

PS  I think you aren't getting pregnant because your body simply refuses to breed with him.[/quote]

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