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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe she used to be hot. I don't think DH and I are mismatched but he is now more attractive than I am. When I was 25, I was pretty cute and had an awesome figure. 15 years, 2 kids and other health problems resulting in surgery have done a real number on my body. I went from being 110 pounds to 130 pounds. I had these perfect boobs when I was 25. 2 kids later, they are ok but my mid section is almost the same as my breasts. I was probably 34-25-30 and now 34-30-30. Definitely do not look hot in a bikini. On the other hand, DH's body is pretty much the same. He was always on the lean side. An ivy league educated girl with a cute face and nice figure was pretty high in demand when she was in her 20's. Now a 40 yo average looking successful man is high in demand. A 40 yo mom with 2 kids who used to have a great career and great figure may not be as attractive.[/quote] This is a vast simplification. I know a lot of 40 year average looking guys who are considered less appealing/less attractive husband material and can't find a woman to date them seriously. Most women in their 20s and 30s want men around their age, not significantly older. These guys are not reeling in the girls, they are aware of the fact that they'll be older dads (if at all) and they don't like it. If you're talking a law partner, it's a different story. On the other hand, I know some smoking hot 40 year old moms who get plenty of attention. [/quote] PP here. DH earns a 7 figure income, smart, funny and charismatic. He would do fine in the dating market. This thread motivated me to look better. I'm 130 pounds, not 200 pounds. I am going to try and drop 5 pounds by May and another 5 by the summer. I can do it![/quote] A teenaged boy just posted this..[/quote]
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