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[quote=Anonymous]OP here, and just want to say thank you to all the late posting folks here who seem to get the issue and also had some great suggestions.

Because there seems to be sooo much debate about whether or not I'm "ok without sex" - let me clarify: I am a pretty sexual and even slightly kinky person with a colorful history.  No, I am not OK with a lifetime of that.  I am OK with 18-24 months of it.  Yes, my DW does know that I'm a much more sexual person than she ever was or likely will be.

I think the posters who suggest that she doesn't believe me when I tell her it's OK and that there's no cheating are probably right. I will look into the "love languages" thing.

While the dynamic isn't quite as harsh as the poster @5:16 puts it, that's not too terribly far off the mark.  Sadly, the issue isn't just a too-recent-release...I've tried a period of no-fap to address this with no real benefit.

As another poster suggested, this isn't the only source of stress she's facing - she does work, but is facing some career challenges right now.

I don't really want to give more details because we might actually become recognizable to someone.

Anyway...I do appreciate the [i]constructive[/i] criticism and feedback.[/quote]

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