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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So she is saying that sex is physically painful for her, 8 months after having a baby?  Has she spoken to a doctor about that?  FWIW the less sex you have the more painful it is, but I realize that doesn't help you.[/quote]

She does not say so, but the wincing and tears (not kidding) say so.  She has seen the doctor and is all checked out and supposedly good to go.

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This is an old post, so may have been addressed already. I have a 7yo, and after I gave birth I was also cleared for sex at like 6weeks. It was PAINFUL. Horrible. I was in constant pain (not just from sex). It turned out that I had some really bad scar tissue that was preventing me from healing (lube would not have touched this pain, it was searing). I think your wife needs to go back to the Dr, or maybe see a different one, and tell them what kind of pain she's in.

Also, is post partum depression a possibility? Could you encourage her to get screened? look up the symptoms and see if any of them seem to match, and then maybe help her get to a Dr and ask that she get screened. PPD is serious and does need to be treated. Getting her pain resolved could also help. I don't know what kind of birth she had, but if she tore or had any injuries from it, the healing process can take a long time. I wasn't pain free for nearly 6 months. It was horrible. [/quote]

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