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[quote=Anonymous]Take intercourse off the table for a defined period of time and revisit it then (2 months, 4 months).  Making it clear that PIV is not an option will take a lot of pressure off of her.  Reinforce that you still do want her but think that for now this will be better for your relationship.

Instead suggest handjobs, blowjobs, titty fucking and even some dry humping (with lube)in the interim.  Encourage her to take care of herself to get her body comfortable with being touched.  When she becomes comfortable with this, build up to mutual masturbation.  Sex does not equal intercourse, there are many ways to take care of each ofher that will ease some of her physiological and psychological burden.

It sounds to me like you really do love her.  Learn to appreciate her body for what it is now.  When there is something that you really do like about her body, express your admiration. When we were dating my wife was exactly my type, very thin.  I couldn't imagine being attracted to any other body type back then.  After 4 kids and 15 years of marriage what turned me on in the beginning is not what turns me on now.  My tastes have evolved as her body has changed.  I love her and want her regardless of what her body type is, though I really do love the curves she has now.[/quote]

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