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[quote=Anonymous]OP you seem like a decent guy who is trying to do the right thing.

Your wife is dealing with major insecurity. There were probably hints of this before kids, but now that she is overweight, and who knows what else is going on in her life (is she working?), it's flaring up badly. The fact that she is so concerned that you will have an affair says a lot to me. She needs time to heal from birth, get hormones going again to get her drive back, and work on getting in shape. You say you are okay with this but the fact that your wife is terrified you will cheat due to this means she is not getting that message.

She needs to feel loved by you to feel secure in your relationship. I echo the recommendation to read up on the love languages and figure out how you can communicate your love to her better. Keep supporing her weight loss efforts in a positive way. I do think time will fix some of these issues, but you can act now to support her while she needs extra affirmation to feel secure.[/quote]

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