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[quote=Anonymous]I see two major issues here.. Her huge insecurity and physical pain. Ignore the idiots OP. I've read pretty carefully. 
It sounds like she wants you to demonstrate your desire for her in order to validate herself but actual sex is pretty impossible due to her pain and insecurity. But then she gets upset at YOU because you stop initiating.  You mentioned she even cried during the attempt.  I'm going to echo other PPs who have said she needs to get to a specialist to figure out the physical part. I think that's a huge problem because of course you won't desire sex when you know it's hurting her. And that lack of desire feeds back into the loop of her insecurity. So I would bring up the pain aspect and mention maybe looking into that. 
You mentioned she's making efforts toast losing weight so keep being supportive of that without making a big deal of it. I was itching to get back in shape afterwards and gained even more than she did - 60lbs. 30 lbs was gone by 3 weeks pp but it took a full year to get back to prepregnancy weight. [/quote]

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