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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In your "truth" you blame poor people for the shitty schools, not acknowledging the poor people have little control or say over the quality of their shitty schools. You fail to acknowledge the lack of community engagment and interventions to deal with the lack of parenting, which you fail to acknowledge comes from the fact that dad is in jail for being busted with weed, and that mom dropped out of school because she got knocked up because she didn't have access to contraceptives, and that this is a cycle that has continued for multiple generations, and they don't know what "normal" is even supposed to be. [/quote] NP here. If this were all true, then nobody would ever make it out of poverty. But, many do. What is the difference? Why are some born into poverty successful later in life and others are not? Could it be..... PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY? [/quote] "Many" don't get out. Very few do. It's a self-perpetuating trap.[/quote] I have commented on this many times. I grew up in a struggling neighborhood in a poor household. My parents, while hard working and well-meaning, had never been to college and expended so much energy "surviving." I was a good student and a responsible teen (I cared for my siblings whle my parents worked). However, until I was 15YO I had no idea that college was even an option for me. I knew nothing about college readiness or financial aid and neither did my parents. The ONLY reason that I even began to understand it as an option is because I had a couple of teachers who saw my potential and helped me. Without them, I would have followed a different path. That is the thing wrong with "all you need is personal responsibility" rhetoric. It implies that people know or should know all of the options they have. In some of these homes, that is not the case. That is one reason why I volunteer in a mentoring program for HS kids. I help them learn what is out there and how to get after it. Besides that, there is a factual disconnect with all this rhetoric. People ARE trying to help themselves get out of some of these communities. AA and Latino college attendance are at historical highs. May of those kids are from low SES backgrounds. The flip side to that is that student loan debt levels are alarmingly high is this demographic. [/quote]
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