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[quote=Anonymous]Wow, I can't believe all the self-centered step moms on here questioning the stepdaughters' lived experiences of neglect and being pushed aside once dad was remarried.  "Oh noes you're totally wrong, it was your mom that was at fault!"  When a mom who had most of the custody was the only parent who was always there for that kid.  Sure, blame it on her, not on the dad who couldn't be bothered to keep trying with his kids through the emotional teens, or be bothered to keep trying to find a way to work through his issues with the mom and have a real relationship with his kids.  Nope, the dad basically throws his hands up in the air and gives up and -- whose fault is that? -- it's all the mom's fault of course!  The selfishness of it!  Hey stepmoms, congratulations for wresting away a dad's attention from his kids!  Score one for you!  Hey dads, congratulations on giving up and starting over with the new fam and having none of it be your fault!

I cannot deal with these whiny stepmoms who are acting like children.  Barf.  What's crazy is that I bet some of them are children of divorce themselves, and know how sad and crazy making it is to have your dad's attention stolen away from you by the new mom.  That's where some of the need for older male attention comes from!  Not all stepmoms, of course . . . but, only connect, ladies!  [/quote]

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