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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The devil is in the details....OP understandably doesn't want to give too many, but I think it does matter. For example, did she finance his Harvard law degree but he's still in a govt analyst job and hasn't even tried to use the degree? I would have a problem with that vs a situation where DH has a job using his degree in a position he feels committed to, is in the public good, etc... Sort of the difference between the job being a deliberate choice vs being too unmotivated to look for something else even though he's not happy either[/quote] This.[b] If she financed -- for example -- a Harvard law degree [/b]and he's in an analyst job that you can get merely with an undergrad degree, OP has every right to be pissed. If he is using his Harvard law degree to earn 150k as an attorney advisor in the gov't, rather than as a law firm partner or in house counsel, then she has less room to complain.[/quote] I seriously doubt this. OP would have mentioned this in the original post. something to the effect of - "We took on $150K in student debt" "We are paying xx dollars every month in student loans" My guess is that neither happened. Instead her assertions are very vague "zillions of dollars" and she won't admit how much money either makes. OP is a spoiled brat and failed gold digger.[/quote] you sound really angry. i'd suggest an increase in meds or therapy. [/quote]
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