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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He kissed a phenotypically male individual and he self identifies a cis male heterosexual, if you insist on separating out sexual orientation, gender, and sex. That is a fucking violation. You are so quick to want to spare the feelings of the trans and the OP just needs to "get over himself". Typical[/quote]

Well, he kissed someone who not only identifies as female but who presents as female to a point that he didn't learn she was born male until she told him.  I get why that bothers him, and she should have given them that information at the beginning of the relationship, but it's not as simple as you make it sound. [/quote]

I'm a cis female who is very sympathetic towards the transgendered, but I think this is fairly simple. Everyone has rights in a situation, not just the transgendered person. The fact that they were already physical before the disclosure makes her a selfish, inconsiderate person. We all have baggage and internal conflicts, but they're our own. If my issue affects the other person, I need to deal with them before getting someone else involved. That means in this case, disclosure. [/quote]

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