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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]by turning all forms of sex into rape, you guys have diluted the impact and the severity of rape.[/quote] This. I'm the victim of rape, have posted a few times. Rape is not about coercing someone to have sex with you. If you have ever been raped it is clear its all about the other person saying NO. "Have sex with me or we're breaking up" is NOT rape. Is the guy an asshole? Sure. But rape? My god, no. "Have sex with me or I will kill you/leave you here in the woods to die"? Yeah, that's rape. My rapist didn't hold me down physically. But he did keep daring me to get up. There was a threat of harm of some kind or death. It was clear he wanted me to say no, to overrule my decision. That's what rape is all about-it's about control and power. It's not about schmoozing someone to have sex with you. Threat of a breakup? As a victim, I feel like that vastly diminishes the crime of rape to a minimal emotional level. Rape is a violent crime. [/quote]
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