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[quote=Anonymous]Ok, just read this entire thread.  I believe that your girlfriend does love you, enjoys your company, and likes being in a relationship.

I think the sex drive is lost and unlikely to come back because of your living arrangement.  You are not paying your way and freeloading off her (as you stated that you have zero housing costs).  You haven't mentioned whether you contribute to bills, groceries, etc., but I am guessing that whatever you contribute financially is only a token of your shared expenses.

You may have, inadvertently, created a situation where your GF has become your mother.  She cares about you, loves you, and genuinely wants you to succeed. However, you are no longer a strong, sexually desirable male in her eyes.

Obviously, I don't know the two of you.  You asked for theories.  This is my take on the situation.  In the long run, you will both find other partners that are better suited to your personalities and needs.

Please treat her well when this ends.  It sounds like she has been very good to you during your relationship.[/quote]

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