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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think you're a little confused about what a stand off is. Seems to me the only person actively engaged in one is you. You are refusing to do a lot of things out of "principle", including refusing to move on despite the relationship not being satisfying to you.

She is not "standing off" by not having sex. She just doesn't want sex. She's LD. PERIOD.

She's 37. Yes, her fertility window is closing, but another year may be worth the investment to her, considering you are already compatible in other ways. Companionship weighs a lot. Maybe she is coming to terms with the fact that she won't have babies or be a wife. Even to those that say this is important, well, goals change. Reality changes them. What we want at one stage can change during another.

So: I don't think there is a stand off at all on her side. She is likely, at least currently, happy with the status quo.

The fact that you are happy wasting her time as a research project for yourself is truly pathological. 
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