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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I spend some time in the winter in Sarasota, FLorida. This area has 55+ communities where no children are allowed, except for visits of course. Outside of regions like D.C., most people don't want to be 55 years old with a 10 year old kid.

Most people want to be free of raising kids and possibly just visiting grandkids but the time they are in their 40s and especially 50s. Waiting to have kids past 35 years old is not a good trend, even for men.

And, most of these people are not being taken care of by their kids. They look like they're having a good time and don't want to be bothered by kids. If all older people were going to daily be taken care of by their grown kids, their would no home health care aids, drivers to take them to appointments, retirement communities.

If you think your kids are an investment into free elder care when you are older, think again. You have kids either by accident, or by choice, to raise them to be independent people, not to be your elder care takers. [/quote]

+1 many good points here.[/quote]

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