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Different PP.  I didn't read that as you are miserable, but you are a miserable (e.g. very unpleasant and obnoxious) person, which I agree with.  You are the judgmental type that has to put others and their decisions down to make yourself feel superior.  You are the type that perpetuates mommy wars.   You aren't just satisfied that OP is making the right decision, [b]you think she's making the right decision because she isn't capable of raising children well,[/b] hence you feel superior because you feel you can do all the "superficial" things that she desires and still raise children.

I'm sorry your children have to be raised by such a petty person.  I hope that they will learn not to be so judgmental and unkind, but unfortunately, it's probably too late because kids tend to mimic those they are reared by.[/quote]

Wow PP. You made a lot of assumptions there! Actually you don't sounds like a very nice person yourself.

To clarify, I don't think that OP is making the right decision because she isn't [b]capable[/b] of raising children well, rather I think she's making the right decision because she's just not into having kids and having to make the lifestyle changes that often come with being a parent (less sleep, not having nice furniture, etc). For example, a child may be capable of growing up and becoming a physician but they shouldn't become one if they are not interested in medicine.

Communication and lack of sex is not dependent on whether or not someone is a parent imo, so those reasons are irrelevant. Some people are really into keeping their lifestyle a certain way and those people may not be cut out to be parents. No judgement there. It is what it is.[/quote]

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