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This is overly dramatic and unnecessary. Stop acting like this ams creating problems in your life. [/quote]

She has every right to her feelings and is absolutely not being overly dramatic. She just married someone in the full expectation that they were on the same page and then learned that--up until their engagement, but while they were dating and planning a future together, he was also seeing someone else and lying to both women. (unclear to me if he ended when they got engaged, when they moved, etc).

yes, I truly believe that they may very well work through this and have a more honest, open, happy union, but right now, she's been blindsided by his deception. Its very, very hard to realize that you've been completely intimate and open with someone who is hiding something huge from you. He withheld important information that would have affected her decision to get married, buy a house, build a future with this guy. If he had been more mature, he could have said that he wasn't comforable being exclusive long distance, etc, but he didn't. he took advantage of her to fulfill his own selfish goals. It sounds as if he's truly remorseful and that the realization that he could fuck up the best thing that has ever happened to him might be a good thing and they might work out--but in the meantime, let the poor woman have her feelings.

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