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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^It's not about sex being [b]boring[/b], it's about not getting off during sex.  If you were not getting off during sex, no one would blame you for toning it down and not wanting it as often.

Clearly, since OP wants to have sex more often, I am assuming he is getting off each time.  If his wife is not, he needs to take steps to bridge that gap. 
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She can "take steps" too.

The underlying presumption seems to be that if that if the sex is "bad" for her it is entirely the man's fault. But it takes two to tango.

Ultimately, she has just as much of a responsibility to communicate how she feels and what she wants instead of being passive and waiting for her man to magically divine the secrets of her vagina without her help.

Also, men "get off" every time because they don't have the mindset of "waiting for her to give me an orgasm." [b]Men make their own orgasms.[/b] Women should learn how to get themselves off and then try to achieve that for themselves during sex, but they don't because they prefer to be passive. [/quote]
No they don't.  They use our bodies to make their orgasms.   If I could grab his tongue and use it to climax, I'd do that, but anatomy intervened.

I already know how to get myself off when I'm alone. If I have to do that when I'm having sex with you, then why are you there at all?[/quote]

If all sex is to you is a means to get an orgasm, then you really ought to be masturbating. [/quote]

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