Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "My wife reacts with hostility when I ask for more sex"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^^ I've asked my wife for more sex without the expectation of physical affection. Pretty much the same as what you said, right?[/quote] No, not at all. Because all you're asking about is how to get your needs met without having to meet any of hers. What we're trying to do here is help OP (perhaps that's you, perhaps not) see areas where he might not be meeting her needs, which could be leading the her resentment and unwillingness to meet his. It probably feels unfair to some people to have to extend themselves to meet their spouse's needs without their own needs immediately being met as well, but when you're in a stalemate like OP seems to be, someone has to make the first move to improve things. Since OP is here asking for advice, I'm suggesting he be that person. If a wife were here with this question, I'd make the same general suggestion (how can you meet his needs better so that he's more inclined to meet yours as well). [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics