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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So many pages, what else is there to say... To the OP, I assume your children are young. This is THE hardest time. An earlier post (19:19) had a great suggestion. You need to get out of the house without kids and DH on regular basis, exercise class, walk with a girlfriend or even better, a 2 day trip away. Husbands will never clean like you do, but [b]they do need to care for a child for a few days alone to truly appreciate all the work that you do[/b].[/quote] This is such a bullshit canard. Every dad I know routinely and capably takes care of the children -- for time ranging from hours to days. This "Dad is an idiot -- you'll show him a thing or two if you dump the kids on him" thing always backfires because the premise is fundamentally flawed. In fact, most of the time they do a BETTER job of taking care of the children than Mom because they're less likely to hover or correct every little thing the child does wrong.[/quote] My husband is nowhere near as capable of caring for our children as I am. I know. I went on international business trips from 7 to 10 days when we had two kids under 4. No multitasking, no advance planning. I'm sure not the only one who married a less capable man.[/quote] Hahaha! Enjoy your life of being saddled with a "less capable man." [/quote]
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