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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's a justifiable immediate emotional response to someone who knowingly takes part in destroying your family. We should lay full blame and focus our negative emotions on the husband for his actions, but we can still hate that another woman was selfish and nasty enough to do something that she knew would hurt us and our children. [/quote]

This poster gets it.  It's not true hate.  It's screaming about the unfairness of bearing all the pain.  The DH undoubtably with the DW have responsibility for maintaining their relationship.  But their relationship has no chance once a third party is in the mix.  The unfairness stems from the DH and OW making decisions with knowledge the wife doesn't have.  For instance, if the DH on this thread with the unhappy asexual marriage said "hey if things don't get fixed, do you mind if I have sex and emotional sharing with so and so?"  The DW is totally out of the loop in that conversation no matter what a shitty wife she is.  You have a right to leave your shitty marriage, but the pain experienced by finding out you've been tricked by your life partner is like no other.  [/quote]

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