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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can't imagine the eggshells that poor man walks on.[/quote]

Why?  Because I posted in a forum asking for advice about it?  Or because I care about something you think I shouldn't?  He doesn't think it's wrong for me to be hurt by this, and my communications about it have been very productive with him.  You guys really think it's ok to just lie about a promise you made to someone?  <shrug> ok, that's fine but it's not the relationship for me, and my DH agrees.[/quote]

No, I don't think it's okay to lie.

On the other hand, you have wrecked your relationship with your MIL and are currently wrecking your relationship with your DH because he lied about something you profess to not care about.

No harm, no foul, lady. If you don't care about whether his mother knew or not, you don't get to punish him for it. It's a white lie. Move on. [/quote]

OK, apparently this is too complicated for you to understand.  If so, you should go with bowing out as suggested earlier.

Of course I cared whether his mother knew at the time.  I just don't care ANYMORE about that.  Now I care about the fact that they lied about something they knew I DID care about at the time.  And I care way more about lying to me about something than I care about the underlying thing, and I've made that clear - if you are going to break a promise/agreement, tell me about it.  [/quote]

Clearly, the only thing to do is for you and DH to divorce. He chose his mother over you. He lied to you. He betrayed your trust. There is no coming back from that. This is as important to you as cheating would be.  Divorce is the only thing you can do, now. [/quote]

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