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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Why is he at fault for assuming things will continue as they did? Staying at home is a major change from working. Shouldn't a change like this be thoroughly discussed and vetted before happening?[/quote] Because nobody is entitled to the life they expect. Sure, it should have been discussed, but the OP is naive to think their arrangement was final and binding no matter how miserable his wife was. Two twentysomethings with no idea what parenting is actually like cannot be expected to make that kind of commitment. The OP should know that people's views and feelings change as they age and grow in life experience. [/quote] Feelings and views can change to their hearts' delight. But they aren't entitled to make unilateral decisions that affect the rest of the family without consulting the family based on these feelings and views. Feelings and acting on them are two separate things [/quote]
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