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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Basically, OP complains that his wife has little redeeming value, and the response is that he needs to jump through hoops to "romance" her.

Maybe she could put in a little effort herself. [/quote]

Yes, because every woman gets soaked at the thought of a man who thinks he's entitled to sex just because of XYZ.

The key is to never stop romancing your wife. Women have to feel wanted for themselves, not solely as a sexual object. We can tell when you take us out with ulterior motives vs when you take us out because you genuinely want to have a good time together. OP says he has tried the suggested comments but perhaps his wife is picking up on subtle clues as to how OP really feels.

OP, I challenge you to try this just one night. Get a babysitter and plan a date with your wife. Pretend it is your first date ever. You certainly hope it will be your lucky night, but it won't be if your lady doesn't think the night has gone well. In fact, if it doesn't go well, you might never see this lady again. So, do what you need to do to impress her, WITHOUT ANY EXPECTATIONS. I suspect you might find that your lady will be much more responsive to you than you might think.

I also second the poster who said to learn some new tricks in bed. Maybe your wife is bored in bed. You have to give her a reason to want you and keep coming back. She's not going to want sex if she's bored or unfulfilled.[/quote]

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