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[quote=Anonymous]
Because [b]OP told us [/b]so:

[quote=Anonymous]..snip...
Talked about solutions. [b]She said I just need to tell her when I need sex, she will do whatever I need even if she is not in the mood.[/b] I said it's really difficult to initiate when it is clear it would be "bothering" her. She said she would much rather be bothered than to lose her marriage...snip... [/quote]

Furthermore, he never once mentioned that she has ever rejected his advance. Only that he perceives she's [i]not in the mood[/i].
I think we are just dealing with a too passive husband here.  So in this case, I think he needs to just man-up and learn how to playfully approach his wife for sex.

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So, how do you navigate that narrow passage. I flirt with my wife and get a stony, uninterested response that indicates, "aww crap, not this again." How do you know when pushing ahead will be unwelcome and, therefore, rapey versus when pushing ahead will be a well-received aggressive initiation. No means no, after all. [/quote]

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