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[quote=Anonymous]...snip...
Wow I almost unloaded a real post about dealing with sexless marriage.
But all we have hear is a guy who is either too afraid, or too clueless, 
to initiate sex with his receptive (though very distracted, and sexually selfish) wife.[/quote]

How could you have possibly come to this conclusion ?[/quote][/quote]

Because [b]OP told us [/b]so:

[quote=Anonymous]..snip...
Talked about solutions. [b]She said I just need to tell her when I need sex, she will do whatever I need even if she is not in the mood.[/b] I said it's really difficult to initiate when it is clear it would be "bothering" her. She said she would much rather be bothered than to lose her marriage...snip... [/quote]

Furthermore, he never once mentioned that she has ever rejected his advance. Only that he perceives she's [i]not in the mood[/i].
I think we are just dealing with a too passive husband here.  So in this case, I think he needs to just man-up and learn how to playfully approach his wife for sex.

Alternatively, this couple might be well served by scheduling sex: agree on the exact frequency and the days/times each week. It's his job to remind her, it's her job to go along with the agreed days/times. 
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