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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So things didn't go so well. He didn't want to have dinner so we got together for a coffee.  We weren't there long. I tried to make nice small talk but he wasn't into it. He did bring up seeing me with that other guy. He asked me if he was a long lost cousin. I laughed and said no and he said he figured as much and that he was trying to be funny. He asked me if I'm dating him (guy 2). I said that I went out with him a couple of times. He then asked me if I'm having sex with him. I said that instead of talking about other people I wanted to talk about and focus on us.

He then said that he apologizes for having read our cues wrong - whatever that means. He said he wanted to confirm that I"m dating more than just him. I said that I want us to be exclusive if that's what he wants too. He didn't reply like I thought he would. He said he misread "us" so we should keep things as they are and that I can date whoever I want.

I don't think he broke up with me but it was weird - I've broken up before and it never goes this way. He just looked weird and sad and said things I know are out of character for him. He asked why I never dressed up sexy for him like I did for the other guy. I instantly said I would next time we go out and he just said 'yeah right.'

Then we parted. Maybe we'll get together later tonight. Sucks big time.

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Clearly you were the only one this guy has eyes for so when he realized you weren't already exclusive it really hurt him. OP, if you really want this guy, persue him. Make it clear that you are shifting gears and have made up your mind that you now only want to be with him. Of course, don't push too hard if he isn't coming around rather easily, but calling him, being proactive making nice plans, cook for him, tell him how you feel, etc is a good idea. Good luck![/quote]

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