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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Were you in a coma the entire time you dated him and throughout the ensuing years after marriage?  Maybe the problem is you.[/quote]

Are you trying to say that you believe people stay the absolute same throughout their lives and don't change when in a marriage?[/quote]

It never ceases to amaze me that people cannot see beyond their own noses. No wonder this world is full of wars and violence. Very few people have the ability to imagine that other people have other circumstances.

I am so thankful for my marriage. My DH and I met when we were 20 & 21. We have changed tremendously through the years. We are not the same people who met in 1998. I feel like it is simply luck that we changed together and remained compatible. ..and stronger. I realize that we are lucky and this is not everyone's experience.

I can't wrap my head around the fact that other people cannot see that everyone has a unique experience. [b]Also marriage is NOT for life.[/b] Nobody has to be tied to destructive and unhealthy dogma for the sake of what exactly?[/quote]

Then don't marry ....... just live together and when you have had enough of each other then move on.

Marriage is not serial monogamy either where you marry, divorce ...... rinse and repeat. At the very least don't make a mockery of marriage vows. How about a vow to stay together until we decide we have had enough?[/quote]

Sorry, you domt get to decide the universal operating procedures of marriage.

If your mate has significantly changed and has sucked the happiness out of your life, time to move on.

I'm in a healthy relationship. Everyone should have that opportunity.  I'd rather be alone with my cats and cabernet than resorting to complaining about my shitty spouse on an anonymous website. When that day comes and it is that bad, time to spit the bank account and move along.[/quote]

Well, then don't pretend  you made a lifetime commitment when you get married. No one is compelling you to take such vows. It is your choice and I am sure it sounds wonderful just like all the other trappings that surround a wedding.

It is analogous to swearing a court of law to say the truth and then lying through your teeth as soon as it is no longer convenient to tell the truth.[/quote]

It is a lifetime commitment with stipulations.

Go move to Saudi Arabia or Yemen. Your beliefs about marriage are in line with their values.

Her in America (God Bless) if someone has significantly transformed and essentially dropped their end of the bargain, we get to part ways.[/quote]

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