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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had a conversation with a single male co worker and asked him about dating a 40+ Woman with a child.  He said that most guys will consider attractiveness first, then personality, then kids.  He didn't think the "single mom" thing would be an issue...at least not for him.  He is 34 and I am 43.  [/quote]

this has been my experience. i'm 30, single with a child, and most guys i've met have been unfazed. my guy friends probably never imagined falling for a single mom, but some have and married them. [b]what mattered first and foremost was the physical attraction. i believe its because guys are usually not looking for a relationship, but sex. so they pursue attractive women, for sex, then get emotionally attached over time.[/b] i think it's different online, because people can weed out thinks like "has kids" before seeing your profile. guys are really simple. if they are attracted to you, they go for it because they're not thinking about the long term (initially) anyway.[/quote]

38 old male here and I agree completely with these sentiments, especially the bolded part.  I dated single moms when I was in my 20s.  Didn't faze me, [b]although making a long term commitment would have been a bit more of an issue[/b][/quote]

This.  No problem having sex with them but a marriage?  [/quote]

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