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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This forum has been the best ever! I just moved to DC after living in Raleigh, NC for 8 yrs. Race is always a factor...always, but class can be a serious equalizer. Being black, I appreciated when people came right out with their truth. Some I met had never,EVER had a conversation with a educated black person. Low and behold when you actually talk with someone you find out skin color is just that, something that makes my outward appearance different than yours. Many were surprised at how much we had in common. My daughter attended a private school and eventually the request for play dates came up. I realized the true character of people when there was reciprocity. It's easy to invite the only black girl in your school to your house, much harder to go to the black girl's house. It was a eye opening experience as to how many people truly live in a all-white bubble. [b][b]But honestly the segregation and bigoted attitudes in the Northeast and South don't differ much. Northeast folks like to say they are liberal, but let someone of color move into their neighborhood.....oh how quick they change. [/b][/quote]

[b]I agree. In the North it is trendy or PC to say you're liberal and have all kinds of friends, but the reality is that isn't true -- the truth does come out when a non-white family moves into an otherwise all white neighborhood or when someone casually makes a reference to someone being "American" -- meaning Caucasian. At most I find whites willing to befriend well to do/middle class Asians -- and sometimes that's even just surface level -- i.e. coworkers or exchanging hellos at a school event but not invites to functions at home with "real" friends. But I find most are less open to black, Hispanic etc[/b][/b].[/quote]

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Agreed. I feel like southerners are a lot more open/blunt about -- I've never met a Jew/Muslim, I've never had a black friend, I only want to socialize with people from my own race/religion/church etc. While in the north it is PC to want diversity, but we all know many do not REALLY want more than surface level contact; the difference is in the north it comes out in subtle comments, rather than bluntly stating it. I don't even mean those in rural Pa. who have never seen a Jew/Muslim -- I have run into it in places like NYC. Was interviewing last month at one of the top 5 investment banks in NYC. As part of the process, I had to have coffee with this worldly woman in the department -- the typical wealthy NYC upper east side type of person -- though given that she kills herself in I-banking at the age of 50, I suspect she is not old money. Anyway she was engaging and spent half the time talking about her awesome travel experiences, the last time she was in Italy blah blah. We seemed to be getting along great, but she could not contain herself from asking how often I get to go home. I said -- every 4-6 weeks. She looked puzzled. I looked puzzled as I explained -- well my parents are in Philadelphia, it only takes 90 min to get there -- as she said "oh I meant home-home -- India." Nice attitude. A brown person who was born and raised in Pa. certainly cannot be as "American" as her and think of Pa as home, they have to think of India as home -- where they last visited about 15 yrs ago and where their parents came from almost 40 yrs ago. So the attitudes are no different in the north -- just the presentation is different.[/quote]

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