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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, are you someone who has a history of feeling jealous in relationships without good cause? Is snooping something you tend to do because you have a hard time trusting your partner for whatever reason? If not, then trust your gut.
I think it's okay to be open with him about what you're feeling in relation to what you found - this can be done in a non-confrontational, non-accusatory way. "Honey, I have to admit that I haven't quite been able to shake the feeling I had when I saw those movie tickets. I'm not usually like this and you have given me zero reason not to trust you but it's weighing on me a bit...can we have one more conversation about it and put it to bed?" And then decide whether or not you want to trust him, drop it and move on.
Or if you are comfortable dropping it for now then just keep your eyes and ears open, as PP said. It sounds like he has given you no other reason to think he is lying and sneaking around. And it's hard to imagine he would take another woman out on a real "date" when you are so thoroughly integrated into his life - if he wanted a piece of a$$ he probably wouldn't be taking her to a romantic movie.
And yet, his story is weird, no doubt. [/quote]

OP here. Lol, yes, weird story. You have given me two great options! I think that I will let it rest. Most of my stuff is over his place, [b]I know every person in his life[/b] and this is the only red flag. I am sooooo not a snooper. I would never look at his accounts, phone, email etc. I used to be jealous but for very good causes. I think that has me worried sometimes now but this man puts me at ease.[/quote]

Yeah that's what I thought too honey. Doesn't mean a damn thing. Same thing with your stuff over at his place. Geez you think all the married cheaters bring their side piece home? [/quote]

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