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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, please keep your guard up.

You definitely should insist on seeing those emails and texts. HE broke your trust; it is HIS responsibility to rebuild it. He closed doors in your marriage and opened windows to her. You are not only allowed but entitled to know exactly what his relationship with her was.

Moreover, in one week, search his car for the secret cell phone. [/quote]

He locked his car doors in our garage!  That was one of the things I pointed out to him -- why is your car locked when it is in the locked garage?? He said - oh, it locks automatically.  I was like - no it doesn't. So he has stopped locking the car.  I will check on this.

I called the phone company and I can't obtain the texts..they don't save those. And by coincidence, his main phone "died" a couple of weeks ago (in the middle of all this emotion) and so he switched to a smart phone (that locks)...I know this all sounds bad.  Anyhow, he gave his old "regular cell" phone to our oldest child as a toy.  I wonder if I can still access old texts on the old phone. I think he stripped it back to factory settings.

I told him about this message board (not the name of it but the fact that I have been seeking advice) and I said, everyone thinks you are pulling the wool over my eyes.  He said - those people don't know what they are talking about.  [b]One thing that may keep him honest is that his current co-worker and very good friend - a nice longtime married man who I trust - now know all about "jane" and I suspect this male coworker will keep my DH on the straight and arrow.[/b]  This co-worker is the one who recommended the counselor and I trust that he is an advocate for us staying together.  DH told him that I called "jane" and he thought that was okay. [/quote]

Oh come on. It doesn't matter if you have a coworker and other people in your corner rooting for your marriage. Your DH and how he's making you feel and his dishonesty are all that matter here. If you need to hope for the help of a coworker to keep your DH in line, all is lost. [/quote]

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