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Reply to "I want my husband to reimburse me for half the income I lost during maternity leave"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP- you guys need to get counseling. You guys have created a "every man for himself" dynamic that, no matter what people tell you here, does not work in a family structure. Separate acounts are fine as long as you are working towards a common goal and have family needs as the priority. I do not see that here. You each are more worried about keeping what is "yours." The way I think about it is that [b]the FAMILY took a financial hit [/b]with your maternity leave but the flip side is that [b]the FAMILY benefitted from you being home with the baby[/b]. But you guys have things set up in such a way that yYOU would take a hit. What I am saying is the system you guys have will NEVER result in shared sacrifice. It is too separate. [/quote] + 1.[/quote]
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