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[quote=Anonymous]Don't be so hard on the OP, when you are in the middle of the relationship, it's hard to be objective. No relationship is perfect. OP is going through a natural process of figuring out this guy is not who she thought/wanted.

OP, at the very least, he was getting benefit from living at your house and at the same time putting wear and tear on it. He should have been contributing toward the mortgage/repairs.  He's too tight with a dollar to be in a loving, respectful relationship. At the very least, it sounds like he loves money above all else.

I'm the PP with 3 step kids. I love them, although I don't love them as my own. I care about them as human beings, and understand my husband loves them deeply. I want and do contribute financially to their well being and their fun. My husband makes more than me, but part of my income goes to them as well. Not as much as his, but I do contribute. They are kids (although late teens). They deserve to have supporting, caring adults in their lives. Not mooches. Things don't have to be 50/50, but they should be built on a foundation of love, respect, and common life goals.[/quote]

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